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Dan Rust on the Ross Kaminsky Show

Dan Rust on the Ross Kaminsky Show

Dan Rust on Denver’s KHOW-AM radio with Ross Kaminsky talking about”Workplace Poker” and why people struggle with self-promotion at work. How can you “toot your own horn” without being perceived as a blowhard braggart?

Ross Kaminsky is the host of the Ross Kaminsky Show, heard every weekday morning on KHOW-AM in Denver, and a columnist and blogger for The American Spectator. Mr. Kaminsky is also a regular donor to other free-market and libertarian organizations including Reason, the Cato Institute, and the Independence Institute.

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Jordana Green Show Interview

Jordana Green Show Interview

Jordana Green hosts a radio show on WCCO 830 AM (Minneapolis) weeknights from 9 p.m. – 11 p.m. CST. On this show segments below she interviews Dan Rust about his book Workplace Poker, and offers her own insight into the modern work environment. They discuss self-promotion strategies, how to effectively “toot your own horn” without being perceived as a blowhard.

They also discuss the importance of personal charm and charisma in career advancement, and whether or not someone can actually learn to be more charming. Dan shares stories of several “charm-challenged” individuals who were able to develop greater effectiveness in this area. It took time and significant effort, but eventually these overly-serious grumpy folks were able to become quite pleasant and indeed, charming.

The total interview (parts 1 and 2 below) lasts about 30 minutes.

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Tooting Your Own Horn? Then Pick the Right Tune.

Tooting Your Own Horn? Then Pick the Right Tune.

You are exceptionally competent and doing a great job. And so are a lot of other people.

You work hard and go the extra mile. So do a lot of other people.

You make important contributions to the business. Other people, ditto.

So how do you make sure that your achievements and contributions are recognized by the right people in order to maximize your potential for career progression? Because if you don’t find a way to toot your own horn, your strong performance may get lost in the orchestra of other horns blaring loudly.

“What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.”― Ralph Waldo Emerson

Those words by Emerson are lovely, but they don’t tell the whole story. Because what you do doesn’t “speak loudly” unless the right people know what you are doing. And it is up to you to make sure they know.

But many of us are inherently uncomfortable with the idea of self-promotion. We get annoyed by others who are obviously promoting themselves and their work (or taking credit for the work of others) to the people who have the most influence over career progression.

Don’t you hate it when someone in a meeting answers emails on her iPad the whole time, not contributing in any way, but when a senior leader walks into the room she suddenly has lots of ideas and opinions? And when the senior leader is clearly impressed with one of her thoughts, doesn’t that just burn your britches?

OK sure, but what did you do about it? Did you step up and share your own ideas? Did you find a way to highlight yourself (without being so obvious about it of course) or did you sit silently stewing over the unfairness of it all?

Blatant self-promotion feels unnatural for most of us. And bragging is considered poor form in virtually every culture on the planet. Most of us would prefer that the quality of our work would speak for itself.

But in today’s hyper-competitive world, where no one wants to get caught up in the next round of layoffs, and everyone is competing for the few promotion opportunities available, it is not enough to just do good work. You have to go out of your way to make sure the right people KNOW your good work.

At the most basic level, we need to tell our bosses (and anyone else with influence over our career progress) what we’re doing and the results we’ve produced. This has nothing to do with bragging or bluster. Just the facts.

A surprising percentage of supervisors (more than 60% according to recent surveys) really don’t know the specifics of what their people are working on, and the ultimate impact of those activities. So here are a few specific strategies you can employ to ensure that the right people are aware of your contributions to the business.

Recognize informal self-promotion opportunities

Often the most effective self-promotion opportunities are not formal presentations or meetings, but the informal day-to-day interactions. When your boss or someone else of influence asks you, “What’s up?” or “How are things going?” for most people the typical response is “Not much” or “Pretty good.”

Instead take the opportunity to say something like:

“Things are going well. We’re pretty excited about the progress on ____________.”

-or-

“Good. A lot of focus on the _________ project right now. And we’re making good progress.”

-or-

“We’re focused on ________ right now. Do you have time for a quick question? We could use your perspective on _________.”

Use these informal moments to express your enthusiasm for the work and give a brief update regarding your latest priority or project. If it makes sense for the situation, ask the person for their perspective on some specific aspect of the project.

DON’T just ask them what they think of your work. That’s too obvious. Instead identify some aspect of the work which would GENUINELY benefit from that person’s perspective. This isn’t just playing the self-promotion game, this is authentically engaging with a leader to get his or her perspective, knowing that this also helps to keep you on the “radar” of a busy leader.

Help others

If your work projects and assignments are tightly controlled by your boss, then of course your personal productivity and ability to meet/beat deadlines is important. If you are able to work more quickly than expected and have extra capacity, here’s a way to ensure that you maximize the self-promotion impact of your personal productivity. You could say to your boss:

“I just wanted to let you know that I finished the _____ project ahead of schedule, so I have some extra capacity. Do you know of anyone who could use my help?”

Note that part of the key here isn’t just being helpful and generous to your coworkers, but making sure that your boss knows about your extra effort, and also appreciates that the effort is focused on areas that he or she has recommended.

Even if you have a more independent work environment, before deciding to help someone on a project you should mention it to your boss. Something like:

“I’m planning to help Donna on the Mayfair project, but I wanted to run it past you first just in case there are other projects that you think should be a higher priority, or need a little extra help.”

Again these should be GENUINE questions because you really do want the feedback, but you are also ensuring that the boss is aware of your “extra” activity. It isn’t enough to just be generous with your time and energy. You have to make sure the right people know about it.

Promote others

If you go out of your way to generously highlight the good work of others, there is a natural reciprocation that often occurs. They will feel compelled to return the favor at some point.

However occasionally you will recognize that someone in the work environment is nothing but a “recognition vampire.” They suck up all possible recognition and give nothing in return. Once you recognize these people, never again give them even a tiny drop of your recognition blood.

If there is a project for which you have done significant work and made a genuinely positive contribution, go out of your way to mention the efforts of others on the project. Again this need to be in the form of genuine appreciation. But the natural impact will be to also have others highlight your own contributions.

Be subtle and thoughtful

The subtle art of effective self-promotion depends upon others not perceiving you as a self-promoter. This can be challenging but again, don’t fall into the trap of just passively hoping that your good work will speak for itself.

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Carer Advice for Old Geezers

Carer Advice for Old Geezers

Fair warning: The hard truths below may not be politically correct, and may even offend a few “mature” workers. But I am well into the final decade of my own career and count myself among the legions of old geezers who are fighting an uphill battle for continued career acceleration and relevance on the job. Like medicine and therapy, what’s best for us isn’t always pleasant. 

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“I don’t want to spend my last ten years working as hard as I have for the previous thirty,” a friend recently admitted to me. “But I also don’t want my career to flat-line.”

And with those comments he neatly captured the dilemma facing many people in the final chapter of their careers. They are still ambitious in terms of wanting promotions, new opportunities to contribute, more status, more money, etc. And at the same time many of them don’t have the same internal “fire” for work they used to have. They have other priorities including time with family and friends, a personal “bucket list,” or other things that have become important to them. Plus there is the reality of aging. Our 50ish bodies and minds don’t have the same capacity as they did in our 20’s and 30’s.

Older workers also have to deal with the perceptions of others in the workplace, and the reality that they are competing with younger, often more aggressively ambitious colleagues, for every significant promotion and career opportunity.

Companies are much more willing to invest in a younger person who has perhaps a 30-year trajectory ahead of them. They are more willing to assign them to growth projects and “stretch” assignments. And the unspoken truth is that often people are simply waiting/hoping for the older worker to pack it in and retire.

So if you, like me, are an “old geezer” with a little kick left, what can you do to maximize the final years of your career? I can assure you that the tips below will help, and I can also assure you that your initial reaction may be resistance because these may not be easy or natural for you. Like I said before, the best medicine sometimes tastes the worst. So here we go…

1. Master the technology your younger colleagues are using. Do whatever it takes to get up to speed with the workplace technologies that others around you are using to boost productivity. Especially the basic everyday apps that your younger colleagues are using to boost productivity. In the minds of others at work, almost nothing more powerfully tags you as a “dinosaur” as being the one person who has to have help converting a Word document to .pdf format or editing your PowerPoint slide master. For internal systems and applications, you may need to find someone at work who can help you. But for all external/public applications I would go outside for tutoring. Take a class, live or online. Or buy a book. Get a smartphone. Buy a tablet. And use them.

2. Reject the idea that you are owed something for your years of service. This isn’t about what is right or moral or legal. It is about helping you adopt a mindset to accelerate your career path. If you hold on to even the slightest sense of entitlement, a feeling that something is owed to you, in subtle ways you give yourself permission to coast a bit. In business today, your contributions over the past decades aren’t relevant – it is the value you are creating for the business TODAY that matters.

3. Show your vitality. There is an element of theater in business, and you want to make sure you are putting on a daily show of vitality and energy. You are pushing against the perception that your age means less energy and less mental acuity. In reality of course, as we age there is a decline. We can minimize it with healthy habits, but we can’t avoid it completely. But to prevent this from impacting your career progress you’ve got to project the energy and vitality of someone at least a decade younger.

So stop talking to work colleagues about your age or health issues. Yeah, I have the aches and pains and twinges and spasms. And when you get together with your geezer friends it is natural to fall into a conversational comparison of hip replacement techniques. But at work, NO ONE should hear any of this. It just reminds people of your age and reinforces perceptions of decreased vitality.

4. Stop pointing out problems. Use your experience to create innovative solutions. Because you have so much experience, and because you have seen so many things tried in so many ways, you will OFTEN know that certain ideas or approaches are unlikely to work. And it is OK to OCCASIONALLY share the wisdom of your experience. But many of us fall into a pattern of ALWAYS being the one to point out why something won’t work. Even if you are right, eventually people start dismissing your comments because they don’t want someone who is always pointing out problems. Instead try using all of your experience to come up with unique and innovative solutions. And if those solutions can leverage technology (see first item above) that’s even better.

5. Be younger. Thinner. More energetic. I almost didn’t include this last point because it is so sensitive. Focusing on the cosmetic aspects of aging seems shallow, but this is a big part of the way others view us. If you’ve gained a few pounds each year and are now on the “heavy” side, if your hair has gone gray, if you walk more slowly, all of these things definitely impact the way others perceive you.

So don’t be shy about coloring your hair – yes, a little gray can look nice, but generally this is only true if you have a physically fit, trim physique. Pudgy men and women with gray hair just look…old. And seriously, it isn’t too late to get back in shape. Losing even twenty pounds tends to make you look at least five years younger. And the added energy you gain from being more physically fit will help as well.

I’ve had enough conversations with older workers to know that many of you are already thinking through why these suggestions won’t work for you. God bless you and your bad knees. For those of you who are willing to step up and push for a few more years of energetic relevance at work, I would be thrilled to hear about your experiences with these ideas.

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Stand Out From the Job Search Competition

Stand Out From the Job Search Competition

Even if you have reached the top rungs of the corporate ladder, you might discover in this turbulent job market that potential employers will be looking beyond your core qualifications to your creativity, flexibility and fit into the company culture. Establishing yourself as a best-in-class professional, capable of easily adapting to and thriving during fluctuating economic cycles, will set you apart and enable you to more quickly land a career-enhancing opportunity. Some nontraditional strategies  include:

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How to Fine-Tune Your Résumé

(from wsj.com)

It’s one of the first things people think to do after losing a job: quickly get a résumé into as many hands as possible. But career experts say doing so without a strategic plan is a mistake becauses it wastes time and energy and typically results in few callbacks. Here’s how to fine-tune your résumé: Read more

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10 Things Emotionally Resilient People Don’t Do

Emotional resilience is trendy, so read on. Basically, this means that if you are emotionally resilient, you can bounce back from most setbacks that life can throw at you. In times of stress, failure or even a natural disaster, your emotional resilience will be put to the test. The word ‘resilience’ comes from the Latin word ‘resilio’ which means to bounce back. Business people, social workers and school children can all benefit from this emotional fitness.

So, how emotionally fit are you? Let us look at what these people never do because they have a natural talent to cope with the stress of everyday living.

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